{"id":1882,"date":"2025-07-25T20:55:59","date_gmt":"2025-07-25T20:55:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sayyestochildcare.org\/?p=1882"},"modified":"2025-07-25T20:56:02","modified_gmt":"2025-07-25T20:56:02","slug":"emotional-regulation-and-following-direction","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sayyestochildcare.org\/en\/emotional-regulation-and-following-direction\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Emotional Regulation and Following Directions Matter"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"1882\" class=\"elementor elementor-1882\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-d92e0ce elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"d92e0ce\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-40b1c2b\" data-id=\"40b1c2b\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0532c1a elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"0532c1a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h1 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Why Emotional Regulation and Following Directions Matter More Than Letter Tracing in Early Childhood<\/h1>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-47f484f elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"47f484f\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-ce24dd2\" data-id=\"ce24dd2\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-86530e1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"86530e1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1536\" height=\"864\" src=\"https:\/\/sayyestochildcare.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Untitled-design-2025-05-19T154858.945-1-1536x864.jpg\" class=\"attachment-1536x1536 size-1536x1536 wp-image-1884\" alt=\"Child identifying emotions\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sayyestochildcare.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Untitled-design-2025-05-19T154858.945-1-1536x864.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/sayyestochildcare.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Untitled-design-2025-05-19T154858.945-1-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/sayyestochildcare.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Untitled-design-2025-05-19T154858.945-1-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/sayyestochildcare.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Untitled-design-2025-05-19T154858.945-1-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/sayyestochildcare.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Untitled-design-2025-05-19T154858.945-1-2048x1152.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/sayyestochildcare.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Untitled-design-2025-05-19T154858.945-1-18x10.jpg 18w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1536px) 100vw, 1536px\" title=\"\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-1f5e2f3 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"1f5e2f3\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-26cb7a0\" data-id=\"26cb7a0\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e614784 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e614784\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>When we think about early childhood education, many often picture little ones practicing their letters or counting numbers. While academic skills like letter tracing and math are important down the road, research and experience show that <em>emotional regulation<\/em> and <em>following directions<\/em> are even more critical skills for young children to develop first.<\/p><p><strong>What Is Emotional Regulation, and Why Does It Matter?<\/strong><\/p><p>Emotional regulation is the ability to understand, manage, and express feelings in a healthy way. For infants, toddlers, and preschoolers, this means learning how to calm down when upset, share feelings with words, and cope with frustration. These skills are foundational for healthy relationships, social success, and overall well-being.<\/p><p>Children who can regulate their emotions are better equipped to focus, learn, and adapt to new situations. Without these skills, even the most eager learners can struggle to succeed academically or socially.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-3091af5 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"3091af5\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-bb4e244\" data-id=\"bb4e244\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-3cc3c1e elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"3cc3c1e\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-35d5f6f\" data-id=\"35d5f6f\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a8f49b0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"a8f49b0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"600\" height=\"900\" src=\"https:\/\/sayyestochildcare.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Untitled-design-2025-05-19T155426.429-1.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-1885\" alt=\"children sharing paper\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sayyestochildcare.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Untitled-design-2025-05-19T155426.429-1.jpg 600w, https:\/\/sayyestochildcare.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Untitled-design-2025-05-19T155426.429-1-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/sayyestochildcare.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Untitled-design-2025-05-19T155426.429-1-8x12.jpg 8w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" title=\"\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-bc2c314\" data-id=\"bc2c314\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5423028 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5423028\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong>Following Directions: More Than Just Listening<\/strong><\/p><p>Following directions might sound simple, but it\u2019s actually a complex skill that involves attention, memory, impulse control, and understanding social cues. When children learn to follow simple instructions, they are building executive function skills that support problem-solving and independence.<\/p><p>This ability helps children transition smoothly between activities, cooperate with peers and teachers, and stay engaged in learning experiences.<\/p><p><strong>Why These Skills Should Come Before Letter Tracing and Math<\/strong><\/p><p>Early childhood educators and child development experts agree: children must have a strong foundation in emotional and behavioral skills before formal academics can really take root.<\/p><ul><li><strong>Ready to Learn:<\/strong> Emotional regulation and the ability to follow directions prepare children to be \u201cready learners.\u201d When children feel safe and in control of their emotions, they are more open to exploring new concepts.<\/li><li><strong>Better Classroom Behavior:<\/strong> Children who can manage their emotions and listen carefully tend to have fewer behavior challenges, creating a better environment for everyone to learn.<\/li><li><strong>Stronger Long-Term Success:<\/strong> Studies link strong self-regulation and executive function skills in early childhood with higher academic achievement, better social skills, and even improved health later in life.<\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-a3322bc elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"a3322bc\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-550332c\" data-id=\"550332c\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-db63ca3 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"db63ca3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong>How Caregivers Can Support These Skills<\/strong><\/p><p>Parents and teachers can foster emotional regulation and following directions through everyday routines:<\/p><ul><li><strong>Model Calm and Clear Communication:<\/strong> Show children how to name feelings and solve problems calmly.<\/li><li><strong>Use Simple, Consistent Instructions:<\/strong> Give clear, manageable directions and praise children when they follow them.<\/li><li><strong>Practice Turn-Taking and Patience:<\/strong> Games, group activities, and storytime can build skills like waiting, sharing, and listening.<\/li><\/ul><p><strong>Say Yes To Childcare\u2019s Commitment<\/strong><\/p><p>At Say Yes To Childcare, we prioritize training and resources that help caregivers support these essential early skills. We believe that fostering emotional regulation and the ability to follow directions sets the stage for all future learning\u2014academic or otherwise.<\/p><p>By focusing on these foundations, we are helping children grow not just as learners, but as confident, compassionate individuals ready to thrive in school and life.<\/p><p><em>Want to better understand the roots of emotional behavior?<\/em> <a class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/sayyestochildcare.org\/en\/3-types-of-temperament-in-children\/\" target=\"_new\" rel=\"noopener\" data-start=\"394\" data-end=\"512\">Explore the 3 types of temperament in children<\/a> <em>and how they shape responses to routines, rules, and relationships.<\/em><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-92c3629 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"92c3629\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"600\" height=\"900\" src=\"https:\/\/sayyestochildcare.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Untitled-design-2025-05-19T155330.579-1.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-1886\" alt=\"emotions\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sayyestochildcare.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Untitled-design-2025-05-19T155330.579-1.jpg 600w, https:\/\/sayyestochildcare.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Untitled-design-2025-05-19T155330.579-1-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/sayyestochildcare.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Untitled-design-2025-05-19T155330.579-1-8x12.jpg 8w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" title=\"\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Research and experience show that emotional regulation and following directions are even more critical skills for young children to develop first.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1884,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"give_campaign_id":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[9,34,35],"class_list":["post-1882","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-childcare","tag-childcare","tag-emotional-regulation","tag-following-directions"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sayyestochildcare.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1882","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sayyestochildcare.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sayyestochildcare.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sayyestochildcare.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sayyestochildcare.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1882"}],"version-history":[{"count":14,"href":"https:\/\/sayyestochildcare.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1882\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1980,"href":"https:\/\/sayyestochildcare.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1882\/revisions\/1980"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sayyestochildcare.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1884"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sayyestochildcare.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1882"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sayyestochildcare.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1882"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sayyestochildcare.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1882"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}